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Sarah Centrella

Author | Life Coach | Motivational Speaker and single mama. I'm a chick on a mission to prove anything is possible for ANYONE. My story featured in the New York Times, Steve Harvey Show and NBC.

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  1. Anonymous says:

    Wow, the lyrics to this song hit me to my core. I LOVE Lady Antebellum btw. This is exactly how I feel about the loss of my latest love. Take today for example, I awoke feeling sheer gratitude and peace about my life. I havent felt this much gratitude and peace since just before I met him. Quickly it hit me that I didnt have a hole in my heart and then I got sad because a lack of a hole meant that he was further out of my life and that he really would end up being just “someone I used to know” like all of my other exes. I feel God/the Universe pulling me to another level of joy and I’m choosing to keep my thoughts on a man who is probably not thinking of me. One thing that makes me scared to let go, is my age. With age comes wisdom but looking older comes w age too and I’m 43 and feel like there’s less time for lightening to strike. Well, thanks for this post. Just for today, I am going to hold on to the joy I woke up with and just for today I a not going to be anchored w thoughts from the past. Tomorrow and the next day I’m going to do the same thing. Focusing on joy doesnt have to mean that I let go of him completely but maybe by focusing on joy, my heart will naturally let go and then there will be room for more joy. Peace to you..Rhonda

    • Rhonda, I love your thoughts… I know how you feel. That feeling of losing the “feeling” or the closeness where that person merges into “just someone you used to know” is the worst! Holding on to the pain almost feels better sometimes.. but luckily time does heal a broken heart, and luckily they do fade or we would all die of broken hearts! I’m glad your focusing on what you want and not what you don’t.. and I know how hard that can be.

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