Are Men Capable of Fidelity?

Sarah Centrella

Author | Life Coach | Motivational Speaker and single mama. I'm a chick on a mission to prove anything is possible for ANYONE. My story featured in the New York Times, Steve Harvey Show and NBC.

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  1. Anonymous says:

    I understand the frustration and where you are coming from with this but I can say that absolutely there are many men who are faithful to their spouses. Why aren’t you running into them? Perhaps because they are at home with their families and not out trying to date you. The guys who are out dating will of course tend to be players, and the guys who are not players will tend to not be out dating (even a lot of the single guys won’t be out there).

    I admire the way that you deal with infidelity when you see it – too often women put up with behavior like that and assume that if the guy ends up with them then it’ll all be good, but of course they will be cheated on too at some point.

    One other perspective that kind of struck me as funny/interesting – doesn’t this kind of thinking go against the Law of Attraction? I don’t know lots about the LOA but doesn’t the belief that men are incapable of fidelity kind of limit you to only meeting men who are players?

    Don’t get jaded by what you are seeing on the dating scene. You are beautiful and have a lot going for you, and you will find someone that you can trust. You will probably not find him when looking for him though.

    A man who IS faithful

  2. Sarah says:

    Yes very true. This post is about a year old and was definately written with a little frusteration! LOL And clearly there are many men AND women who are faithful. To your point about the Law of Attraction your right! I recognized about the time this post was written that you draw certian people into your life, so I amended the type of people I now draw into my life, that has a big part to do with it for sure. I still dont like dating, but that issue doesnt come up like it did. I beleive there are amazing guys our there who can be devoted to one women, and then there is a big majority who never will, it’s just not in their DNA and if that’s the case that’s on them, but it’s NOT for me so I steer clear! Good feedback 🙂

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