Letting Go of The Love of Your Life.

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Letting go of the love of your life…
 
Two years ago I met the love of my life.
 
It was one of those cosmically aligned moments, when I ran into a stranger in an elevator who changed my life and stole my heart. The connection was instant and undeniable.
 
For the next year my heart went through every possible emotion.  The most prominent of which was; finding the one person you’ve spent your whole life searching for, the one that is the perfect match to you in every way, but knowing from the start that it would never last. It was that tragic. That heartbreaking –can’t-do-shit-about-it- life’s-a-bitch- kinda love that rips your heart out.  Yet when you fall in love, you  have no control over it, even if you know the chances for survival are minimal at best. It just is what it is.

I didn’t believe in love at first sight until our eyes locked that day. I thought it was something writers and fairytales invented to keep us wishing for some magic that probably never existed. But from our first eye contact, it was there, as crazy as it sounds.  If you’ve ever found this kinda love, then you know it doesn’t sound crazy at all.  There was no denying it, on both sides. And from that moment on as we spent time getting to know each other, knowing that our timing would not mesh.

I asked God and the Universe (or whatever else was listening)…why? Why do this to me? Why put me through something so pointlessly painful. Why bring him into my life in such a fates-collide kinda way, only to not let him stay? 

I don’t know the answer to that question.  I wish I did. I wish it would reveal itself to me. Because even now two years later, the thought of him makes me want to cry. No matter what I’ve done to try and move past it the last year, to put him behind me and except that it wasn’t meant to be, he’s still always with me.

I share this with you because, almost every single day for the past few years a reader will write to me from somewhere in the world with a story just like this one.  They always ask me: “How do I get the love of my life back?” And I always say… you don’t.

You let them go.

“But!” They protest, “I want you to tell me how to make the Law of Attraction bring them back”.

And again I say… not how it works my friend. Believe me this is not what I would want to hear either. But it’s what I’ve come to know is true. And the only thing that keeps my heart from bleeding out, is knowing and trusting that there must be some crazy higher power at work, dreaming up a bigger dream for me than my little brain can do for itself.  Because to me he was perfect. To me he was all I’ve ever thought I wanted.  But that’s not the reality.

The reality is that if it was perfect and if he was the one for me, it would have worked out. It wouldn’t be a tragic love story. It would have been happily ever after.  And it’s not.

"Letting Go of the Love of Your Life." How do you let go of the one person who you feel was your soul mate? Is there more than one true love of your life? CLICK TO READSo what I must do, and what you must do if you find yourself in a similar situation, loving someone who didn’t chose you.  Or who left you. Or who doesn’t love you as much as you love them, you must let them go.  You must trust that there is something greater and better at work for you.  And then you must look at all the reasons that person came into your life.  And all the things they taught you about yourself.  And realize that maybe they came into your life, not to be there forever, but to teach you something that will make you ready when forever finds you.

It’s hard. I know this. There hasn’t been a day that’s passed the last two years when I’ve not thought of him. Maybe that will always be the case, I don’t know.  But the year of heart-brokenness, and pain, and tears, and emptiness has finally passed. And it will for you too.

The lessons he taught me about myself, and the awakening I had about my life; my past, the way I love and seek love, all of those things are priceless. They are the reason I was able to write my memoir.  Was able to finally find happiness inside myself instead of seek it in a man. He raised the bar to a level I never thought I could expect, and he softened a heart that was quickly growing cold.

For all those reasons I’ll love him always. But over time I’ve been able to let him as a person go, and still hold on to those qualities and realize that maybe they will manifest in someone even more perfect.  And even if they don’t I will be okay.

And lastly, if he really is my sole mate, then time and age and distance and life won’t matter.  Somehow, someway, someday, he may reappear. But that’s not what I focus on. There’s nothing I can do to make that happen. I’ve learned through trial and error that the only love I want in my life is one that is equally unmatched and where equal sacrifice is made, and until that is the case chasing after it will do no good.

I remain hopeful, and steadfast in my belief that whatever is meant to be for me will find me.  I’m not going to chase it, seek it, or hunt it down. I’ve drawn it to me before I will again, and so will you. Don’t let your heart ever stop believing that somewhere out there someone was meant to keep it safe for you.

Wonder if we ran into each other in an elevator today if we’d still have that
spark.. If we’d still feel that magic?  Hope you’re good, and happy, I
want that for you.
And I want for my heart to forget what it felt like, when u said my name...

 

Time to say goodbye to the love of your life.

 

Ready to work with me? Learn more about my coaching and schedule a free 15 min consultation to learn how you can let go of the wrong love and manifest the right one! 

 


 

Author | Life Coach | Motivational Speaker and single mama. I'm a chick on a mission to prove anything is possible for ANYONE. My story featured in the New York Times, Steve Harvey Show and NBC.

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66 comments on “Letting Go of The Love of Your Life.
  1. Christine says:

    The Love of my Life and I married way back in 1965…….divorced 1970…… got together again in 1983 for a couple of years but ………… we were married to others so we parted……….. he’s moved countries, we’ve both married again ………… he’s still the love of my life, my knees go weak just writing this as I think about him, but love is not always enough. There has to be more and it is a sad fact of life, honesty and caring HAVE to go along with the love but I am thankful to have’ loved and lost then never to have loved at all’!
    I have a friend who has been married for 30 odd years but never known this kind of love …… that is sad.

  2. Anonymous says:

    “The lessons he taught me about myself, and the awakening I had about my life, my past, the way I love and seek love, all of those things are priceless.”

    That is totally how I feel right now! Recently went through a bad breakup but I am reaching the point where I am just grateful for all that it taught me. I am stronger and wiser from the experience.

  3. Anonymous says:

    I needed to read this today Sarah. As always when I need some guidance I come to your blog , it just so happens today there was a recent post by you about love lost. Breaking up is never easy even thou we both agree that its time for us to part ways. I feel mixed emotions about him leaving, I think I only want him to stay for fear of being alone yet again. I do miss him not being here on a day to day basis. My problem is getting over the being alone and wondering what he is doing or with whom. How to I get these thought out of my head?

    • I’ve finally come to the place where I’d rather be alone then be with anything less than what I felt with this man. Once you know it exists it makes you refuse to settle.

      • robert says:

        Wow….my feelings exactly. Her name is faith and I have never experienced anything close to the love that we shared together. Nothing will ever, ever compare and my heart will never fully mend, yet at the same time I am so incredibly grateful to have experienced this once in a life time love even though it was for such a brief period of time. I will take her memory to the grave and nobody or nothing can ever take that away from me. I love you faith. – Robert

        • Robert says:

          If by some chance the universe/god has led you to this message faith, please always know that no matter how much time has passed, no matter where I am, no matter what the circumstances, my heart will always belong to you. – Robert

  4. Anonymous says:

    i can totally relate to this, I thought the person I met was my soul mate, haven’t spoken to her in over 6 months now. Still having a really hard time dealing with loosing her, hope this didn’t work out for a bigger reason that makes no sense to me at this moment, but will at a later time.

    • Anonymous says:

      i feel your pain, but mine left me a month ago, we’ve still seen each other on and off though, but thats not fair on either of us to hold onto something that she wanted to let go of, 3weeks after we broke up shes already started kissing other people, and for some reason she found this amusing, right now, my heart is so crushed, and empty and hallow, i hope it gets better

    • I feel your pain… boy do I!

  5. Anonymous says:

    It has been a year and a half since he broke my heart and i still cannot seem to forget him. I try so hard to move on but the memories of our times together makes it practically impossible. For me, our relationship was perfect, he was perfect! I don’t know why he didn’t see what i saw!
    It is just so hard because i feel like i will never love or share things with anyone else like i did with him. It breaks my heart to think that he was everything i could want, but he didn’t feel the same about me!!

    • That is the WORST. loving someone who doesn’t love you to the same degree… i think that if you both equally love each other it works out, but if one isn’t in it as much as the other it doesn’t… at least that’s what happened to me.

  6. Adam W says:

    Just read this and I hope that the girl I’ve had to let go to pursue her dreams crosses my path again one day and realizes how much I loved her to let her walk out of my life. From the word go it was going to be so difficult to make work and we had such an amazing 4 and a half months. She as a person is perfect for me, but the situation of life ruled against it though.

  7. Jayne says:

    I let go of the love of my life 2 years ago and after 18 months we found each other again. He is now engaged to someone else, but I have seen him and the love between us is still there. You can feel it in the air. We won’t act on it, as he is hers now and we screwed things up so badly last time that we can’t go back. I thought I had let him go completely but now realise I never stopped loving him and it feels like I have started from scratch again in trying to move on, with little success. I want to believe that there is something more special planned for me, but I don’t know how I can love someone new when my heart still belongs to him.

    • Sarah says:

      My heart truly goes out to you. It feels like a cosmic slap in the face. Here’s everything you want, but can’t have! 🙁

    • I know that feeling, believe me. The only thing that gave me some peace was knowing that the universe/God or whatever you want to call it knows my future when I don’t and KNOWs that this person was not right for me. I really do believe that if it’s meant to be things will work out and “the stars will align” if not then i have to trust that this one is NOT the one. As a side note a few months ago I found out some information about the man in this post that fully supports this belief. Now that i know what i do, I KNOW the universe was protecting me from him. So trust it, the right one will come along…

  8. is it cheating when your wife left you shows very little in the marriage at all, contact me for conversation is minimal as possible,not to mention she flakes on me every time we supposed to see each other.I let go.is strongly believe in my heart that it was over I had sex with another woman occasions

  9. Rachael says:

    yeah…i have to get myself together and move on. It was never meant to last,and i knew it from the very beggining.

    Sometimes,lifes just life and it deeply sucks,but you gotta deal with it.

  10. Sarah says:

    I came across this, as i am in this situation right now it feels impossible to let go, I wonder, as its been over a year since your wrote this, has it become any easier?

    • Hi Sarah, it took me basically three years to get over him. It was the hardest thing i’ve ever gone through from the aspect of my heart. I thought I’d never get over it. But the last year was much better for sure, time really does heal a broken heart. And not being in contact with the person helps a lot. And recently i found out the truth about what kinda person he was that shed much better light on our relationship and who he is as a person, and I can tell you that worked like a charm!! haha it was like magic and i was finally totally DONE. So it does get better I promise.

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  13. Stacy Smith says:

    We all read false hopeless statements online, the little sayings that are suppose to give us hope; “He’ll come back”, “Wait for him” and so on, a part of moving on is being honest with yourself. Be honest enough to realize things may or may not work out with you and him. It’s hard, yes I know. But once you’re honest with yourself about the realization that maybe he won’t come back to you, is when either way the situation could resolve, you’ll be okay with it.

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  16. THANKS TO DR BENEDICT FOR SOLVING MY PROBLEMS

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{benedictsolutioncentre@yahoo.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster DR benedict. So.
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    child. Although my wife and i loved each other very much as it were.We kept on
    hoping and for 6 years there weren't any sign of breakthrough .As days
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    me for another man. I was now left to face my problem alone even
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  18. Greetings from Bartlet Schaefer, I am From the USA but living in Canada for now because of my work. I am here to share my experience to the world, I want to say a very big thanks to the great Dr. Prophet Elvis Osemudiamen for all the marvelous works he has done for me, I know this is the best way to appreciate him for his work he has done for me. My Lover Katie Willert left me for no reason with my two kids away, i was so unhappy because there is no reasonable reason for leaving me and the most thing she has ever done she took away my precious two gifts away. I tried all the best I could to get her back but nothing work out, until one faithful day I met an website http://drprophetelvisosemudiamen.webs.com on a news paper I visited the websites and read everything completely and it was talking about great DR. Prophet ELvis Osemudiamen on how he has helped many people out there to get thier love one back, I immediately contacted the email, we both talked on email and he called me and also speak to me on phone, he told me that he does not charge for his Love Spell but I will be the one to provide the money needed to buy the materials to do the work, I did what he asked me to do because I really need My lover back and also my kids, after 24hrs he called me that he has finished the works. that in the next 48hours my wife is going to come back with my kids, I kindly wait patiently, all thanks to Gods of Dr, My Wife came back to me with the kids and we now both understand each other and love each other well and this is now going to two months now, we are not having any misunderstanding anymore and the love goes stronger every day. I want to say a very big thanks to prophet because if not for him, to God forbid bad thing I must have been an empty vessel by now. DR email is perfectlovespelltemple@hotmail.com and my email is bartletschaefer@gmail.com while his websites is http://drprophetelvisosemudiamen.webs.com

  19. Lucky says:

    You say you suffered for a year. What happens when that becomes 4 years, when you try to move on, see other people and subconsciously sabotage every chance for one reason or another but mostly because you want no one else. What then? I’m not in deep depression but have rather learned to be ascetic, almost monk-like. While it has its benefits and maybe that was the lesson to learn…I want this feeling to end or maybe realize that I need to look in the mirror and realize I have to fight for who I want, even if I just fight myself in the process. Thoughts?

    • You just need to realize that all the energy you are wasting on a person who’s moved on with their life is blocking your own happiness. Do you really want to give them that much power over your life? What we think about is what keep showing up in our life, so if you are always looking in the past you will never be able to move forward. Instead put your focus and your energy into what YOU want in your life. Focusing on making your life as full, complete and happy as possible. Focus on what you want in a mate and trust that the Universe will bring it to you when your ready. Allowing someone who doesn’t love us to keep us from happiness is kinda crazy… thats what i finally had to come to terms with. It’s time to get your life back! You can do it!

  20. Joi says:

    I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years a little over a month ago and even though I left him, I can’t stop thinking about him, missing him, and loving him. I left because he had rage issues, would say very harsh things to me and all of it was taking a toll on my health and well being. I keep thinking of the good times we had together and keep wondering if I had done things differently maybe I wouldn’t be in this situation right now. My family saw how he treated me and said I needed to leave him which was true and many times I would say I know that I need to leave him, but my heart and my head are not matching. I had never been treating the way that he treated me in the begiñing; so sweet calling all of the time, sending me his favorite sweatshirt and teddy bears, I moved in 2013 from one state to another to live together and I have all of these memories that hurt so bad. Even after I left he doesn’t really acknowledge WHY I left, but chooses to focus on the way that I left (my family warned me not to let him know I was leaving him because we couldn’t gauge what his reaction would be if he knew in advance that I was leaving him,so he went to work and came home to find that I had left). I have guilt over doing it this way, and I did it this way only because my Mom said she was scared that she’d have a “dead daughter” if I had told him I was leaving. He says that he would never do that to me, and I hurt him so horribly the way that I left him and that he loved me more than he loved himself and he was so hurt the way that I left. I can’t get over this and I’m in so much emotional pain. He seems to have moved on and now doesn’t respond to my messages. I need help.

  21. My Name is Juliet Adrian,i live in California,i have a big testimony to say to the people who have Womb problem, I have been married for five years without any child, nor pregnancy and so i became very sad and lost hope in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant and this really make life so hard for me and this made my husband to turn away from me.My sister in-law told me about DR OSAKA from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry and that everything we soon be okay.He cast a spell and it was a miracle to my greatest surprise three days later my husband came back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,and Dr OSAKA he gave me just water from his temple to drink and he also gave my husband some thing to rub before we made love.just few months later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (boy and girl) we are now a happy family.i will advice you to email him now:drosakamiracletemple@hotmail.com I am so happy!! if you also need help to get pregnant or need your ex back please contact him for help via email:drosakamiracletemple@hotmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems or predicaments in your life.his mobile number on what/apps:+2348158667106

  22. My Name is Juliet Adrian,i live in California,i have a big testimony to say to the people who have Womb problem, I have been married for five years without any child, nor pregnancy and so i became very sad and lost hope in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant and this really make life so hard for me and this made my husband to turn away from me.My sister in-law told me about DR OSAKA from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explained to him. He told me not to worry and that everything we soon be okay.He cast a spell and it was a miracle to my greatest surprise three days later my husband came back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,and Dr OSAKA he gave me just water from his temple to drink and he also gave my husband some thing to rub before we made love.just few months later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (boy and girl) we are now a happy family.i will advice you to email him now:drosakamiracletemple@hotmail.com I am so happy!! if you also need help to get pregnant or need your ex back please contact him for help via email:drosakamiracletemple@hotmail.com if you are out there passing through any of this problems or predicaments in your life.his mobile number on what/apps:+2348158667106

  23. After being in relationship with him for 7 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by reffering him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster He also help me to win lottery, his email: drehijelespellhome1@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:drehijelespellhome1@gmail.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEM

  24. i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Supreme spell temple for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then he told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, he casted the spell and after 2days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr papa casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr papa for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact supremetemple@hotmail.com or visit his website on http://WWW.SUPREMETEMPLE.COM or call +27611734184 and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

  25. I am Vanella Jones i lives in united states and i was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us. I cry all day, Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to Dr prist bacasim , and i contacted him and tell him my problems how i lost my relationship with my lover. at first i thought it was not going to be possible.i was ask to come up with a little requirement information of me and my boyfriend,so i did what i was ask to do, after 24Hours the spell was cast i was in my office when clark called me and was asking me to forgive him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me. my boyfriend is now back and he treat me well. and our relationship is now stronger ask ever before. if you are out there looking for help is time for you to still put your hope on Dr prist bacasim love spell, i promise you that you will be happy with your boyfriend again email him. drpristbacasimspellcaster@gmail.com or you can also call him with this number +2347053161101.

  26. After being in relationship for 3 years,my husband broke up
    with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in
    vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I
    begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I
    explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should
    rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring
    him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no
    choice than to try it, I emailed the spell caster, and he told me there
    was no problem that everything will be okay before seven days, that my
    ex will return to me before seven days, he cast the spell and
    surprisingly in the six day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I
    was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was
    so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to
    him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that
    was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have
    made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I
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  27. Elwin Smith says:

    I think that it is possible that I could have fallen in love with someone else If I hadn't met her. Now I will never ever stop loving her and I will never be in love with anyone else.

  28. I never use to believe in lottery winning spell until i met Dr Destiny who help me to win the lottery number, This is a great testimony on how i won $100,000 in my play lottery in the mega million lottery jackpot , I took an advice from someone called Wilson the person who talked about this great voodoo spell caster called Dr Destiny the person placed a testimonies on a blog also on a face book saying how Dr Destiny helped him win the lottery by sending him the winning number i was curious and i thought it was all joke not until i contacted this spell caster to know for myself how this work cause i have spend a lot buying tickets and i never win. I contacted him and he told me the necessary thing that need to be done and i did it and he told me to wait for 2 days and truly he gave me the winning numbers to play the lottery which i did, Can you believe my name was the first among winners. He told me (my son all i need you to do for me is make sure that you share this testimonies to others so that they can also win the lottery cause i do not have much time to spell on the Internet) so that is why i am sharing this testimony with you that if you want to win the lottery this is the way on-line tips can not help you,, i will forever be grateful to you,Email him for your own winning lottery numbers,greatdestinylottohome@yahoo.com He alone have the winning numbers to win the lottery, Because he is a gifted human being who is fully blessed to help other who are in need, All you need to do is to contact this man and make your life easy and wealthy.is email address: greatdestinylottohome@yahoo.com For all your problems and pains to be over i win my game.

  29. I never use to believe in lottery winning spell until i met Dr Destiny who help me to win the lottery number, This is a great testimony on how i won $100,000 in my play lottery in the mega million lottery jackpot , I took an advice from someone called Wilson the person who talked about this great voodoo spell caster called Dr Destiny the person placed a testimonies on a blog also on a face book saying how Dr Destiny helped him win the lottery by sending him the winning number i was curious and i thought it was all joke not until i contacted this spell caster to know for myself how this work cause i have spend a lot buying tickets and i never win. I contacted him and he told me the necessary thing that need to be done and i did it and he told me to wait for 2 days and truly he gave me the winning numbers to play the lottery which i did, Can you believe my name was the first among winners. He told me (my son all i need you to do for me is make sure that you share this testimonies to others so that they can also win the lottery cause i do not have much time to spell on the Internet) so that is why i am sharing this testimony with you that if you want to win the lottery this is the way on-line tips can not help you,, i will forever be grateful to you,Email him for your own winning lottery numbers,greatdestinylottohome@yahoo.com He alone have the winning numbers to win the lottery, Because he is a gifted human being who is fully blessed to help other who are in need, All you need to do is to contact this man and make your life easy and wealthy.is email address: greatdestinylottohome@yahoo.com For all your problems and pains to be over i win my game..

  30. After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

  31. Anon says:

    I met my soulmate 14 years ago. We let each other go because neither of us were healthy enough for the type of love we had for one another. Recently, we came back to one another through no planning of our own, just happened to be around each other. All of the love and feelings remain. The connection is somehow more powerful after all this time and we know that this love is once in a lifetime… However, over the 14 years, I got married. Now my whole world has fallen down around me. I don’t know how to navigate losing my soulmate for a second time, but I take my marriage vows seriously.

  32. I am so happy to share my testimony on how i was able to get back my ex lover on 13th of Jenuary with the help of Dr Abubakar since 3 year ago, I almost gave up trying to get my ex lover back to commit to our relationship fully. I had tried the whole lot I knew, but what I DIDN'T know was that all I had to do was come to you Dr Abubakar and with your blessings and extraordinary magic powers, I wouldn't have to do all the work at all. you did your magic, and immediately after 24 hours, my lover came back to me with lots of apologies and flowers.. And now my life is balanced and happy again. Dr Abubakar is a real and genuine spell caster he help me restore back my broken relationship. You do a great service to people, You are talented with spell to bring back ex lover and many more. Thank you for weaving your magic love spells for me. My husband is back just the way it was when we first met,You can take a look at his website http://spellcastersnetwork.com it was all like a dream to me, i am so happy now as we are back together again thanks to Dr. Abubakar Usman Herbal Centre and i will advice anyone in need of help to contact him via Website: http://spellcastersnetwork.com Or his email spellcastersnetwork@gmail.com You can Call & WhatsApp:+27629741839

  33. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me Called Dr Usman Abubakar. My name is Sherita,I live in California. My Husband is back! After 3 years of marriage, my husband left me with two kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and things was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Usman Abubakar who I met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was Surfing on the internet for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex-lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace, she testified about how Dr Usman Abubakar brought back her Ex-lover in less than 24 hours and at the end of her testimony she gave Usman Website http://spellcastersnetwork.com. After reading all, I decided to give Dr Usman Abubakar a try. I contacted him with his Website and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr Usman Abubakar is really A great spell caster he is the answers to your marriage Issues and I will not stop publishing this great testimony because he is a wonderful Spell Caster If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try Dr Usman Abubakar today, he might be the answer to your problem. here's his contact WhatsApp +27629741839 and Email on spellcastersnetwork@gmail.com, website: http://www.spellcastersnetwork.com

  34. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Marian Christ. and I am based in London , UK. My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me with our three children. I felt like my life was about to end,and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called Grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try.

    I contacted him via email and explained my problems to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man…If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problems. Here’s his contact: drabeljustustemple@gmail.com
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  35. My love broke up 6 months ago and left me heartbroken, this made me sick and my problem became very very difficult and it made me almost gave up but after the love spell from Robinson Buckler, my relationship was restored instantly, I was happy that the outcome was fantastic, only 3 days after robinson.buckler@yahoo.com started it all. Never in my life have I thought this would work so fast. My man reconcile with me and he started acting completely different, we make love everyday (last weekend, we did it 8 times in total!). Now I can say that Robinson's spells work! I can now say I feel happy once again, and like never before. It felt so good to have my lover back again, Thanks to Robinson, here is his Mobile Number to reach him +1971-512-6745
    Vivian Hillary
    Alabama,USA

  36. My love broke up 6 months ago and left me heartbroken, this made me sick and my problem became very very difficult and it made me almost gave up but after the love spell from Robinson Buckler, my relationship was restored instantly, I was happy that the outcome was fantastic, only 3 days after robinson.buckler@yahoo.com started it all. Never in my life have I thought this would work so fast. My man reconcile with me and he started acting completely different, we make love everyday (last weekend, we did it 8 times in total!). Now I can say that Robinson's spells work! I can now say I feel happy once again, and like never before. It felt so good to have my lover back again, Thanks to Robinson, here is his Mobile Number to reach him +1971-512-6745
    Vivian Hillary
    Alabama,USA

  37. I fell in love with this post& i am going through this same experience ,i can’t wait for the day that I am over him…Sarah thank You So much for this post.

  38. James kabogo says:

    Yes I have pass through same situation

  39. Erin Marie says:

    Wow just came across this. I’m married (yes still) 36, and the instant love at first sight unbounded attraction to another man hit me so hard over the head last year. Like you it was on borrowed time, we both knew that yet we kept taking advantage of every second we could spend together. A year later it is over and after 3 months of grief I feel is only the beginning. The worst of it is that my husband and I are committed to healing wounds and building a better marriage out of this while I also have to let go of my fantasy. If this didn’t happen I’d be divorced. So lesson learned from my faithful lover was to set the bar so high that I know what I need in a marriage and have the courage to ask for it.

  40. Monica cruz says:

    My lover left me for over 5years without no notice i was so frustrated and confused i never knew what to do until i got in contact with my best friend in USA called Lorinda, After she told me the great work of Dr Mack how people talk good about him on radio stations and internet so she gave me the contact in contacting Dr Mack, Then which i did i called Dr Mack and told him how my lover left me for over 5years,He told me just to be happy that i will have him back to my arms within 48hours,i was like is this real,So mean while i had faith in Dr Mack that he would bring back my lover,Really before the 48hours i got a call from a man who has left me for over 5years begging me for forgiveness,Which i did and he bought me a nice car, And now we are together and he love’s me more than anything on this earth and can’t do without seeing me a day am so happy and am bringing this great news to everyone, That there is a man who can bring back happiness to there life. Am happy today with the one i love. Dr Mack also heal any kind of diseases or sickness. please you can contact him for help on his private mail __________Dr_mack@ yahoo. com ~~~Amazing!!!!!!!!!!!

  41. Monica Hillary says:

    i was so frustrated and confused i never knew what to do until i got in contact with my best friend in USA called Lorinda, After she told me the great work of Dr Mack how people talk good about him on radio stations and internet so she gave me the contact in contacting Dr Mack, Then which i did i called Dr Mack and told him how my lover left me for over 5years,He told me just to be happy that i will have him back to my arms within 48hours,i was like is this real,So mean while i had faith in Dr Mack that he would bring back my lover,Really before the 48hours i got a call from a man who has left me for over 5years begging me for forgiveness,Which i did and he bought me a nice car, And now we are together and he love’s me more than anything on this earth and can’t do without seeing me a day am so happy and am bringing this great news to everyone, That there is a man who can bring back happiness to there life. Am happy today with the one i love. Dr Mack also heal any kind of diseases or sickness. please you can contact him for help on his private mail __________Dr_mack@ yahoo. com…….,

  42. Mike says:

    Thank you so much Sarah for writing this. It really hit me hard. My loved one recently left me and I am trying so hard to accept it and let her go.

    I am in complete heartbreak and am afraid I have lost my soul mate due to my bad behaviors. We had plans to marry and have kids and I absolutely blew it. Never take your loved one for-granted. I will love you always Georgie.

  43. Ruby Ellen says:

    Wow thank you for sharing! This happened to me also back in 2011 the same year it happened to you. I met him while travelling in a public place out of the blue. Instant attraction. The love was there from the beginning. I never truly got over it and Ive not found love since in all these years. It was totally cosmically aligned. Amazing and intense but it was long distance and he gave up on me. Hes the only true soulmate love Ive had and similar to you, raised the bar to a level so high that I feel I could only ever be with someone in the future if our connection is at least as strong as my love with him, otherwise it would feel like being cheated. It was the real deal. Once youve experienced it you cant go back. Its cruel but like you, I loved him completely, he made me weak at the knees and is still to this day the most crazily gorgeous man Ive ever laid eyes on, but he obviouspy wasnt the one. I also can see logically that there were some compatibility issues that would have caused disharmony so in some ways I can see it wasnt the right fit, but damn it was pretty close. And regardless it doesnt change the feelings. Life however goes on and I hope we all find lasting love next time round!

  44. Jason says:

    Thank you for writing this –
    I am presently going through a self awakening and when I read your words – it rang so true.

    The pain, so painful – love so pure but we are both married and things got complicated overtime.
    We are presently not even talking and I am still trying to process / heal my heart.

    Meditation is what saved me, but shaking what we both would love – being together hurts. My mind knows, my soul understands- but the heart.. well. Faith in the journey is what took a while to be ok with..

    Thanks, again

  45. Sarah Ducent says:

    Hi Sarah,
    My name is Sarah also.
    I just came across your blog & want to thank you.

    My heart is in pieces right now my tears don’t seem to stop flowing, for a man l’ve loved for nearly half my life.. We had a little alternative Wedding in the beginning but we were never together. We’ve been we other people & had separate lives with the odd call or meeting.

    6months ago we reconnected as l’m single & he says he is.. But he has hidden me..Made no effort on important occasions. Yesterday was his birthday & l did not allow us to speak.It was also our wedding Anniversary…he didn’t acknowledge it…so l want him to divorce us now as he married us all those years ago…

    This hurts like hell right now as l’ve never loved someone like this on this level before… l know l have to let him go & l know l can never be part of his life ever again once we divorce…

    Life sucks right now, l’ve never felt so alone. I just wanted someone l truly loved to truly love me, for once in my life…l have no family or real friends either…

    I’m sick too with illnesses & see now only a life of loneliness & no point to carry on…

    But reading your story, has given me a little hope. I’m in my fifties all washed up but just maybe this year someone is coming into my life whom l can be with, be loved & love back & spend my remainding life being happy with…

    So Thank you Sarah, for the inspiration.

    Be lucky & happy now…From Sarah.

    • SarahD says:

      Hi it’s Sarah Ducent here
      Meant to say he didn’t allow us to speak on his birthday/our Wedding Anniversary…

      Also Best Wishes to everyone, don’t be like me wasting years & life on someone that does not value your true worth & love you truly..

      Park them up, dust yourself off & get out there & meet Someone who will & remember to always love yourself first too…

      Good Luck on your life journey Now.

  46. Emily Greene says:

    I reluctantly left the love of my life and I wish I could go to be with him, but in the end, I will not. Even if God pushed me to do so, the ex is over. I have a new man in my life now and he is my best friend. I can’t ask for better. 🙂

  47. Emily Greene says:

    I left the love of my life reluctantly and I shallowly selfishly eternally will regret it. However, God wisely made me leave him, as I deserved better and so did his daughter. In fact, I felt more sorry for her Dad leaving her and her Mom gladly, than staying with such a sleezebag. God at least has the power to eternally heal my regret and heart and that is the only one hope.

  48. Celine says:

    Amazing things I have experienced in my life. and I saw a wonderful testimony of Lisa on a psychic page about the good works of DR Owo. I never believed it, because I have never heard anything about such a miracle before. Nobody would have been able to convince me about it not until DR Owo did a marvelous work for me that restored My marriage of 6 years by getting my husband back to me .  I was truly shocked when my husband knelt down pleading for forgiveness to accept him back. I am really short of words to use to show my appreciation to Dr Owo For his a God sent to me and my Entire family for divine restoration of my marriage. Contact him now for any kind of help via email: drowoherbs@ gmail. com

  49. anonymous says:

    It was a meaningful and inspiring. But I have felt these emotions coming in waves and it almost feels like drowning. Its been almost 6 months after we broke up but Still it feels dreadful. Every time I end
    wishing things would have been otherwise.

  50. Hector says:

    It is amazing to read an 8 year old post that describes feelings that so many people, like myself, can relate to.

    I met the love of my life 10 years ago, we became best friends, started a relationship, and pretty soon after got married. Somehow everything was easy with her, I always felt so confident, peacefull, but… eventually, my childhood issues started to come out, I became indifferent, stoped caring, until finally, after 7 years of marriage, she dumped me, to this day I cannot understand why did I treated her that way?, I mean, I loved her every single day, but for some reason, at a point I could not show her that…

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