I also love this because it’s a great benchmark for your progress and success. It’s a measuring stick that will prove you are either moving forward, falling off the path, or if your life has become stagnant. Remember this is the only life you get, time goes by so fast, and it’s time you take charge of it. Time you lead it, instead of being along blindly for the ride. This exercise will help you chart out a positive course for 2014 and next year at this time it will feel so great to go back and look at this list and see how much you’ve accomplished. I recommend you fill this out and then print it, put it up in your room or office someplace you can see it on a regular basis. Stay focused.
Goals for 2014:
amount that is realistic for you but one that also pushes you just enough). Break out that contribution with each payday.
specific, and then do it tomorrow).
specific examples of what you will change).
where your income is not set, or where you can increase it based on effort put
the amount here. Or if your plan is to increase your income in 2014 put the
plan on how you will do that here).
such as buy a house, or a new car etc.
Take 2 major vacations with the family.
and why it’s important to you.
destination) and a description of what that trip would ideally be like.
What trips would you like to take alone or with your friends?
- What specific things can you do in 2014 to increase the time, energy and joy you get form it?
- What are your goals for where you’d like it to take you in 2014?
- Do you need to commit more time to it? Doing what? How often?
- What are some benchmarks for success with it?
Set clear goals for the relationships that matter to you.
- What would make you a better spouse? Giving more time? Being kinder? Focusing on the positive instead of nagging? Be honest, list out your goals for improvement.
- Are you close with extended family? If not why not? What can you do to bridge that gap and work on those relationships?
- Do you spend time with your friends? Do they know how much you value them? Do you give more than you take in those friendships.
- What would make you a better parent? Having more patience? Being present in the moment with your kids? Playing with them? Talking to them?
- Are you dating? What boundaries do you need to set around that? Are you making the right choices? If not why not? What will you change this year? Do you know what you want? What would make you a better partner.
- If you’re single write a DETAILED description of your IDEAL mate. Shoot for the moon and know that the universe will bring it to you when you’re ready, so don’t waste your time on anything that is the opposite of your list.
He’s dashingly handsome. Has an amazing smile. Is tall and dark and strong. Dresses well, is well educated and well spoken. He’s kind and generous. He’s old fashioned, attentive, patient and adores me and the kids. One who believes he’s waited his life to find me, one who I know is my better half. He challenges me, but supports me at the same time. He’s successful but not obsessed with work. He’s confident but not self-absorbed. He’s KIND and his heart is big and full of love. He’s an excellent communicator, texts and calls often. He lets me know I’m his queen without asking or being told. He does it because it makes HIM happy. He commits to me, doesn’t quit or walk away. Introduces me to his world, is proud of me and wants the world to know I’m his and he is mine. He’s a world traveler and makes it a priority with me. He compliments freely and sincerely. He apologizes and recognizes when he’s wrong. He works to make it right. He’s humble and open to learn and improve. He is real, and steady.
What are your top criteria that can be your benchmark for success?
Example: Our relationship is based on these 4 keys:
- Go to yoga 4 days a week, start running 2 days a week.
- Make relaxation a priority, take care of my skin. Get regular massages and facials.
- Take my vitamins and supplements.
- Drink more water.
- Meditate daily.
- Use mantras to boost my motivation and mood.
- Consider going to therapy (personally I think everyone should make this a priority).
- Read more.
- Focus on the tools of positivity I’ve learned to take me to the next level.
- Stay in control of my mind, attitude and focus.
Here are some questions that might help you make a plan:
- Are you in a career you love? If not why not?
- What would you change if you could?
- What would your dream job look like?
- How can you be more successful in your current role?
- What do you need to do to take your career and income potential to the next level?
What is your plan to make the changes you are identifying?
|Here’s to your best year EVER!|